In a recent conversation with E! News, Francesca Farago expressed her belief that embracing your identity is “the most liberating, freeing feeling in the whole world.” Her fiancé, Jesse Sullivan, however, understands that for many, this journey can be overwhelming and fraught with challenges. Reflecting on his own experience, he stated, “If I would have came out as trans maybe, like, 10 years ago, I honestly don’t think I would have been getting the hate I get now.” This highlights the current climate for transgender individuals, as Sullivan noted, “I think this is a really tough time to specifically be transgender.” The societal pressures and backlash can be significant, making the coming-out process even more complicated.

Given these realities, Sullivan cautions against offering blanket advice to young individuals, stating, “I can’t really tell a young person, ‘You should just come out to your parents.’ I don’t think it’s a safe thing to say.” He emphasizes the importance of considering personal safety in a world where revealing one’s identity could lead to unforeseen dangers and negative consequences. The support systems available to young transgender individuals are crucial, and navigating these waters requires careful thought and consideration.

As a father to his teenage son Arlo, as well as twins Locket and Poetry with Francesca, Sullivan suggests an alternative approach to finding support. “We live in a world where you can literally find a community on your phone, on your laptop, or on your iPad. And that’s how I started,” he explained. The internet provides access to various supportive communities where individuals can connect with others who understand their experiences. “There’s communities everywhere, and there’s people that will support and love you,” he reassured. This digital approach can be a safer option for those who may not feel comfortable coming out in their immediate environments.