During a candid conversation on Gia Giudice’s popular podcast, Informal Chaos, the 21-year-old shared, “We haven’t spoken on the phone in nearly a year, and we haven’t texted in just over six months.” This revelation underscores the emotional distance that has developed over time between Sami and her father, reflecting a significant shift in their relationship dynamics.

Sami downplayed the significance of their lack of communication, explaining that due to Charlie’s hectic lifestyle and commitments, “we weren’t even that close anymore.” This statement reveals her attempt to rationalize the estrangement while also expressing a sense of acceptance regarding their current relationship status, highlighting how celebrity lifestyles can complicate familial bonds.

However, the catalyst for her decision to sever ties with her famous father stemmed from her recent rhinoplasty procedure.

“After I had my nose surgery,” she disclosed to Giudice, “I was really upset that he couldn’t even call me or reach out to see if I made it through the surgery.” This sentiment reflects the emotional expectations many have from their parents, especially during critical life events such as surgical procedures, where support can mean the world.

According to Sami, Charlie did send her a text message “24 hours later, like, ‘Oh, did you make it out okay?’” She responded pointedly, “I could have been dead by now, but yeah, I’m fine.” This exchange encapsulates the frustration and disappointment Sami felt, amplifying the emotional fallout from their strained relationship.

“Then we kind of got into it, and he was saying things like, ‘Oh, it’s not like you got a new kidney; you’re fine,’ and I was like, ‘Okay, thanks for making this worse.’ This conversation spiraled into something so significant that I felt the need to create a greater distance between us.” This illustrates how miscommunication and insensitivity can exacerbate already fragile relationships.

Sami admitted that while the surgery itself wasn’t necessarily a “life or death” situation, “it’s still the support of it” that matters. The emotional support expected from family is often critical during times of vulnerability, and Sami’s experience speaks to the importance of a supportive family dynamic.

She further noted that their conversation that day “tumbled into something really big.” While she didn’t specify the details of that escalation, Sami stated she made the conscious decision to distance herself from her father, indicating the need for self-preservation in emotionally taxing relationships.

Afterward, when he began sending her what she described as “some crazy stuff,” the OnlyFans star realized it was necessary to cut that connection even more thoroughly. This highlights the importance of setting boundaries for mental health and emotional well-being.

“I’ve had him blocked for a minute now. I had to block his email as well,” she mentioned, adding that her father even “actually got a new number on Christmas to text me more crazy stuff, which led me to block that number.” This indicates a pattern of behavior that Sami found intolerable, prompting her to take decisive action.

“I needed to put a stop to it and tell him, ‘Don’t contact me ever again because this is crazy,’” she continued. This statement reveals her firm stance on the matter and reflects the emotional toll that the situation has taken on her.

Earlier in the podcast, Sami shared her experiences growing up as Charlie Sheen’s daughter, stating that after years of him frequently missing important events or showing up “ten hours late,” she eventually “stopped asking him to come to things.” This highlights the disappointment often felt by children of celebrities, particularly those who struggle with personal issues.

Sami mentioned that when she and her sister Lola were “lucky enough to see him, he was most likely under the influence of something. So that was it, it’s sad, but I make humor out of it.” This reflects a coping mechanism often employed by individuals in challenging familial situations.

“I really cannot tell you one memory from my childhood of him where he’s been sober, which is kind of sad,” she admitted. “But yeah, whatever, it’s his choice.” This acknowledgment of her father’s struggles highlights the impact of addiction on family relationships and the emotional burden it can place on children.

“It might have been a lot harder if I had gone from having a perfect family to suddenly, he’s a crazy drug addict, and we don’t get to see him,” Sami added. “So it kind of helps that it’s all I know, but yeah, it still sucks.” This reflects a nuanced understanding of her situation, suggesting that some familiarity can soften the emotional blow of a difficult family dynamic.

Sami also elaborated on how her relationship with Charlie differs from his bond with her sister, stating that they are “really close and he always goes over to [see her].” This contrast illustrates the complexities of sibling relationships, especially when it comes to navigating family dynamics with a parent who has a troubled past.

She noted that she believes her sister is conflict-averse and is always encouraging her, “You only have one dad, like you should text him.” This highlights the differing perspectives siblings can have regarding family relationships, especially in the context of complicated parental figures.

Sami’s response to this was, “Like, of course, you have no idea the stuff he was sending me. So it’s a little frustrating that he’ll bring her gifts and go say hi to her.” This frustration reflects her feelings of being overlooked and the emotional complexities involved in familial relationships.

At the same time, she doesn’t blame her sister, understanding that sometimes “it’s a little easier just not dealing with it.” This indicates a mature approach to handling difficult family dynamics, recognizing that avoidance can sometimes be a coping strategy.

The sisters’ differing relationships with their father became a topic of discussion on their mother’s reality show, Denise Richards & Her Wild Things. In the April 1 episode, Lola expressed her happiness to be “so close with him right now,” after their relationship had “definitely improved.” This showcases the varying dynamics that can exist within the same family.

In that particular episode, Denise informed her daughters that Charlie wanted to see them, but Sami was entirely against the idea. This reveals the ongoing tensions within the family and Sami’s firm stance on maintaining her boundaries.

“The girls have been through a lot with their dad; it’s been up and down,” Denise remarked, while Lola stated it was “such a blessing” that she and her father are “so close” right now. In her own confessional, Sami expressed that she “would rather do anything else” than meet her dad for dinner, indicating her ongoing struggle with the relationship.

“Me and my dad haven’t really spoken much in the past five months now. It goes in very big chunks with him,” she added. “For the first 13 years of my life, it was really bad. Then we were okay for a couple of years, and now it’s just like, okay.” This statement reveals the cyclical nature of their relationship, marked by significant ups and downs.

“The girls have been through a lot with their dad,” Denise added. “I understand why Sami feels the way she does. It hasn’t always been good with him and Lola either. I hope he does recognize that because he’s missing out.” This acknowledgment of the family’s struggles emphasizes the emotional toll that Charlie’s behavior has taken on both daughters.

Sami agreed, adding, “He is missing out.” This sentiment encapsulates the pain of feeling neglected and the realization that their father’s choices have significant consequences on their relationships.