Why Sister Wives' Kody Brown Mocked the Idea of Soul Mates Before Marrying Robyn Brown

Sister Wives couple Kody Brown and Robyn Brown, the last of his four wives, revisit a key term she used to describe him in the early days of their relationship.

By Corinne Heller Apr 17, 2025 11:00 AM
| Updated May 09, 2025 9:34 PM
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Robyn Brown and Kody Brown's marriage may have been destiny all along.

The Sister Wives patriarch and his remaining wife revisited their love story on the April 20 episode of the TLC reality show, including a particular label he once made fun of.

"I'm a fool for my woman. I love her," Kody—who is father to 18 kids with Robyn and his three previous polyamorous wives Meri Brown, Janelle Brown and Christine Brown—said during a family meal. "I didn't know that Mom was my soul mate when I married her."

He then asked Robyn, "I mean, did I know? Do you remember me saying that word to you? I didn't use the word, did I?"

Robyn—who officially married Kody in 2014 after he divorced then-wife Meri to "legally restructure" their polygamous family—responded, "You mocked the word."

To which Kody was quick to offer an apology. "Oh, I did?" the 56-year-old said. "I'm sorry. I hope I didn't insult you."

Ultimately, Robyn—who shares kids Dayton, 25, Aurora, 23, Breanna, 21, Solomon, 13, and Ariella, 9, with Kody—wasn’t too upset about his past reaction, assuring him the remark did not offend her "at all."

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"It made complete sense,” she continued. “That word didn't belong in our world."

Noting that she only “said it once," Robyn recalled, "Then I realized how wrong it was."

"And so I think maybe it's probably OK if you're my soul mate,” the 46-year-old added, “but not OK if I'm yours, because of other people in your life."

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Indeed, this isn’t the first time the idea of soul mates has made its mark in the Sister Wives universe. In fact, on the first-ever episode of the series in 2010, which was filmed just a couple of months into the couple's relationship, Robyn used the term to describe her bond with Kody. As says while freshening up in a bathroom, "Kody's my soul mate. I love him."

And looking back it’s a moment that has stuck with the patriarch. In a confessional on the latest episode of the show, Kody noted, "That comment she made has flattered me from that day till now."

Sister Wives airs Sundays at 10 p.m. on TLC.

Look back at Kody's family tree...

Logan Taylor Brown

Born May 21, 1994, Logan is the oldest son of Kody Brown and Janelle Brown. He is also the eldest child of 18 in Kody's entire brood.

After graduating with a master's degree in business administration from the University of Nevada in 2020, he married Michelle Petty two years later.

Aspyn Kristin Thompson (née Brown)

Aspyn is the oldest child of Kody and Christine Brown. She was born on March 14, 1995.

Also a University of Nevada alum, Aspyn tied the knot with Mitch Thompson in 2018. She announced her pregnancy in April 2025.

Leon "Leo" Brown

Born on July 29, 1995, Leon is the only child of Kody and Meri Brown.

In 2020, Leon came out as transgender, sharing that they were previously "socialized as a girl."

"I was pretty young & unfortunately i grew up in a context that was incredibly gendered & restrictive," Leon—who also goes by "Leo"—wrote on Instagram. "and here’s the thing, i’m finally ready to share my favorite self with the world. and that self is incredibly genderqueer, trans, and unapologetic."

Leon married Audrey Kiss in 2020 at a Colorado courthouse wedding.

Mykelti Ann Padron (née Brown)

The second of Kody and Christine's children, Mykelti was born on June 9, 1996.

She married Antonio "Tony" Padron in 2016 in a wedding ceremony documented on Sister Wives. The couple are parents to daughter Avalon and twin sons Archer and Ace.

Madison Rose Brush (née Brown)

Janelle gave birth to Madison—her second child with Kody—on Nov. 3, 1995.

After studying at Utah State University, Madison married Caleb Brush in 2016. The pair share kids Axel, Evangalynn and Josephine.

Hunter Elias Brown

Janelle and Kody welcomed Hunter—their third child together—on Feb. 9, 1997.

Hunter graduated from the United States Air Force Academy in 2020, before studying nursing at Johns Hopkins University.

Paedon Rex Brown

Christine gave birth to her and Kody's third child together on Aug. 7, 1998.

Robert Garrison Brown

Born Oct. 31, 1998, Garrison was Kody and Janelle's third youngest child together. He died by suicide on March 5, 2024 at age 25.

David "Dayton" Preston Brown

Dayton is the oldest child of Kody's fourth wife Robyn Brown from her past marriage with Preston Jessop. He was adopted into the family in 2015, five years after Robyn spiritually married Kody.

In 2014, Kody legally divorced his first wife Meri so he could marry Robyn and officially adopt Dayton as his son. 

Gabriel Winn Brown

Nicknamed Gabe, the fifth child of Kody and Janelle was born on Oct. 11, 2001. 

Gwendlyn Genielle Queiroz (née Brown)

Kody and Christine welcomed their fourth child on Oct. 15, 2001.

Gwendlyn tied the knot with Beatriz Queiroz in 2023.

Aurora Alice Brown

Aurora is the second oldest child of Robyn. She was legally adopted by Kody in 2015 after he married Robyn the prior year.

Ysabel Paige Brown

Kody and Christine welcomed their fifth child together on June 13, 2003.

Her struggles with scoliosis have been documented on Sister Wives.

Breanna Rose Brown

Breanna is Robyn's third child from her marriage to Preston. After Robyn married Kody, Breanna and her older siblings were legally adopted into the family.

Savanah Brown

Kody and Janelle welcomed their youngest child together on Dec. 7, 2004. The exes reunited for Savanah's high school graduation in 2023. 

Truely Grace Brown

Born on April 13, 2010, Truely is the youngest child of Kody and Christine.

Solomon Kody Brown

Kody and Robyn welcomed their second youngest son on Oct. 27, 2011.

Ariella Mae Brown

Born on Jan. 10, 2016, Ariella is the youngest daughter of Kody and Robyn. She is also the youngest child of 18 in the entire Brown family.

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