Clay Gravesande and AD Smith: Separated

While Clay shared his hesitation about marriage due to his own views on his father’s infidelity, AD reassured him that they would succeed as a couple, and everything seemed fine between them.

However, when faced with the decision to say I do at the altar, Clay said I don’t, explaining to AD that it wouldn’t be “responsible” for him to marry when he felt unprepared.

This led to shock.

“I’m going to put in the effort for you,” he told AD, “and we’ll navigate this together. I don’t care what anyone says; I fully know I’m not ready for marriage, and you deserve the best. If I’m not ready to give you 100 percent, I won’t proceed with you until I am…I can’t say yes right now.”

This revelation prompted AD to tearfully declare that the relationship was a waste of her “f–king time.”

Clay also revealed that financial and emotional factors significantly influenced his decision to walk away. “I looked at myself in the mirror and asked, ‘Am I a husband?’” he admitted, “and the answer was no. Am I deeply in love? The answer was no.”

During the reunion, Clay acknowledged that he made a mistake and expressed a desire to date AD again, but she was uncertain about considering a reconciliation.

AD admitted that she went on a few dates with costar Matthew Duliba after filming concluded, but they are not in a relationship.

She announced in May 2025 that she is expecting her first child with fiancé Ollie Sutherland.