Like a tango, it takes two to feud—just ask Jen Affleck.

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star admitted that one reason behind her recent tension with Whitney Leavitt was their mutual desire to be cast on Dancing With the Stars. In fact, Jen aired her grievances over castmate Whitney Leavitt‘s return to MomTok after stepping back during the second season of their show—all in the hopes of getting on DWTS. As Jen put it, she feels Whitney is “only here for herself and her own opportunities.”

“It’s frustrating for me because since the day I met her, I told her I wanted to go on Dancing With the Stars—that is literally one of my dreams,” Jen shared on the third season of their Hulu series, which premiered Nov. 13. “The minute she sees there’s an opportunity, she’s like, ‘Oh wait, I’ve always wanted it.’

But she’s not wrong. After all, Whitney admitted in a personal confessional that the chance to be cast on DWTS was a big “motivator” to stay in the group, which also consists of Taylor Frankie Paul, Mikayla Matthews, Mayci Neeley, Demi Engemann, Jessi Ngatikaura, and Layla Taylor.

However, the 32-year-old also emphasized that she was there for “sisterhood” as well.