As she navigates this next phase of her life, Kidman remains focused on her work. Urban is following a similar roadmap.

The Grammy winner—who’s also been spotted without his wedding ring—has been on his High and Alive Tour. Concertgoers couldn’t help but notice he made some changes to his music.

While performing “The Fighter” (a song he’s said was inspired by the promises he made Kidman at the start of their relationship) with guitarist Maggie Baugh at one show, Urban changed the lyrics from “When they’re tryna get you, baby, I’ll be the fighter,” to “When they tryna get you, Maggie, I’ll be your guitar player.” The switch-up even seemed to surprise Maggie, who posted a video of the moment to Instagram on Sept. 27 and wrote, “Did he just say that?”

Still, Urban hasn’t changed everything amid his divorce. According to People, the 57-year-old kept a photo of Kidman and their daughters in a slideshow that played during his performance of “Heart Like a Hometown” in Hershey, Penn., on Oct. 2.

As followers wait to see what’s next for Urban and Kidman, keep reading to learn more about the timeline of their divorce.