Sharna Burgess is a pro at co-parenting.

The professional ballroom dancer shared that when it comes to how she treats her biological son Zane, 3, whom she shares with fiancé Brian Austin Green, in comparison to how she treats her stepkids—Brian’s kids Noah, 12, Bodhi, 11, and Journey, 9, whom he shares with ex-wife Megan Fox, as well as his son Kassius, 23, whom he shares with ex Vanessa Marcil—she makes sure to treat all of them with the same kindness and support.

“I’m the same parent to them as I am to Zane,” Sharna shared Dec. 5 in response to a question on her Instagram Story. “Same rules (age depending), same love, same affection. Same desire to give them a life full of opportunity and love and set them up for success.”

Now that the former Dancing With the Stars pro and the Beverly Hills, 90210 alum are bringing their kids together, she’s tried to ensure that all of them feel equally loved.

“I’ve always made it a point since Zane came along to be mindful of this,” she continued. “I would never want them to feel put aside or treated differently,”