Sex Therapist on Haley & Matt Kalil
How to Navigate Size Issues …
Forget the Two Coke Cans

Published November 7, 2025 1:00 AM PST

Haley Kalil states that intimacy with her NFL ex-husband Matt Kalil was nearly impossible due to his large size … a well-known sex therapist is offering advice on how they could have made it work in the bedroom, along with tips for other couples facing similar challenges.

The situation is this … Haley recently appeared on a podcast and disclosed that the primary reason for her divorce from the former NFL offensive lineman was the difficulty of intimacy due to his penis being comparable to two Coke cans.

Dr. Laura Berman heard Haley’s concerns and tells TMZ … the SI Swimsuit model is not alone in finding it challenging to be intimate with a partner who is larger than average.

While Dr. Berman emphasizes that bigger is not always better, she explains that there are numerous ways for women to accommodate a larger penis … she advises that communication, lubrication, foreplay, planning, and taking it slow are essential.

Haley mentioned experiencing pain when attempting to be intimate with Matt, but Dr. Berman advises that the best approach for men in such situations is to communicate openly and not rush their partner … she notes that vaginas can stretch — after all, babies are born through them — but if a woman is anxious about discomfort, she may tense up.

The Kalils are not the first couple to separate due to size issues, according to Berman … she suggests that couples should plan their intimate moments so they can prepare both mentally and physically for the experience.

Haley noted that Matt was larger than most men, but individuals dealing with similar situations should take note … Dr. Berman is providing valuable insights.

The model shared that she attempted various methods to make intimacy with Matt successful, including consulting sex therapists, but it seems they should have reached out to Dr. Berman!!!