A Major Shift in the Dynamics of The Real Housewives of Orange County as Tamra Judge Considers Leaving the Show The cast of Season 19 has been spotted enjoying a getaway in New Orleans, but behind the scenes, tensions are reportedly escalating. Fans have witnessed the cast having fun, yet the atmosphere seems charged with unresolved issues. In a surprising turn of events, Tamra Judge took to Instagram with a post that read, “It was a long run! When life gives you real problems, this reality s–t doesn’t make sense. Peace out … I’m out.” This post has led many to speculate whether Tamra has indeed decided to leave the show, and if so, it may be a necessary step for her well-being. If she has truly stepped away, it might just be the right move for her.

Why Tamra Judge Must Focus on Her Mental Health for a Better Future

Since Tamra’s apparent decision to “quit” the series, she has been openly discussing her struggles with mental health. On her podcast, Two T’s In A Pod, she shared her feelings with guest host Dolores Catania, revealing the emotional turmoil that led to her shocking post. She expressed, “I think I just hit a wall. There’s so much going on in my life and it’s just, I don’t know…I feel like I’m gonna be in a full depressed mode.” The weight of her best friend and podcast co-host Teddi Mellencamp’s battle with serious health issues, including cancerous tumors in her brain and lungs, has also taken a toll on Tamra’s emotional state. These personal challenges illustrate the importance of prioritizing mental well-being amidst the pressures of reality television.

Before the season began, Tamra was candid about her ongoing mental health battles. During her podcast conversation with Dolores, she disclosed that she had been grappling with various personal issues leading up to filming, stating, “I went into the season not knowing, not sure, very anxious and just dealing with some stuff through therapy, and you know that really breaks you down to your lowest point.” This honest admission reveals the emotional strain she has been under, highlighting the need for a supportive environment as she navigates these challenges.

In a later podcast episode, Teddi voiced her disagreement with Tamra’s choice to seemingly “quit” the show. Nonetheless, it is evident that Tamra is currently navigating a dark phase in her life. The additional stress from filming a reality show alongside her co-stars may not contribute positively to her mental state. It’s crucial that Tamra prioritizes her mental health and considers stepping back from the spotlight.

Addressing Tamra Judge’s Increasingly Controversial Behavior on ‘RHOC’

Many viewers believe it’s time for Tamra to step away from the series, as her behavior has become increasingly difficult to watch. She embodies the archetype of the Real Housewives antagonist, demonstrating a pattern of behavior that often seeks to undermine others, including those she considers friends. Take, for instance, her tumultuous relationship with Shannon Beador. Rather than supporting Shannon through a tumultuous breakup, a DUI incident, and emotional struggles, Tamra chose to speak ill of her behind her back while forming alliances with Alexis Bellino, who is now involved with Shannon’s ex-boyfriend, John Jansen.

Tamra’s contentious relationships extend to nearly all the women on RHOC, including Gretchen Rossi, Vicki Gunvalson, Heather Dubrow, and recently, Jennifer Pedranti. Once close friends, Tamra and Jenn’s relationship soured when Tamra expressed her disdain for Jenn’s then-boyfriend Ryan Boyajian. Instead of addressing her concerns directly with Jenn, Tamra resorted to spreading rumors about Ryan’s alleged involvement in a significant gambling and theft scandal. Although the two attempted to reconcile, Tamra’s actions continued to erode Jenn’s trust, culminating in Shannon revealing that Tamra had ordered a background check on Ryan, marking the decline of their friendship.

Outside of RHOC, Tamra has also clashed with stars from other franchises, including The Real Housewives of New Jersey‘s Jennifer Aydin and Brandi Glanville from Beverly Hills. Her inability to maintain amicable relationships within the franchise is becoming increasingly evident. As fans watch RHOC, it becomes clear that Tamra is often at the center of conflicts among the cast. Her penchant for stirring drama and sharing private information has escalated over time. While some fans enjoy the drama, Tamra’s recent behavior has crossed the line, making it uncomfortable to watch.

Having been a part of 14 out of the 18 seasons of The Real Housewives of Orange County, Tamra has established herself as a central figure in the series. However, given her ongoing personal struggles and the challenges faced by her close friend Teddi, it may be in her best interest to step away from the show for a period of time. Tamra’s increasingly difficult behavior paired with her personal distress suggests that it may be time for her to prioritize her mental health and consider a permanent exit from the spotlight.