Not spotted: Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds at Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce‘s wedding.

Indeed, the Gossip Girl alum and the Deadpool star were not among the 1,000 guests who witnessed the couple tie the knot at New York City’s Madison Square Garden on July 3.

Blake, 38, and Ryan, 49, were also noticeably absent at the “Blank Space” singer and the Kansas City Chief tight end’s rehearsal dinner the prior night, with TMZ publishing photos of the parents of James, 11, Inez, 9, Betty, 6, and Olin, 3, stepping out at a horse show in Lake Placid, N.Y.

Blake and Taylor, 36, previously touched on their strained friendship in text messages sent in December 2024, which were unsealed earlier this year as part of the actress’ court case against Justin Baldoni. Taylor—who is godmother to Blake and Ryan’s kids—wrote to Blake at the time, “It feels awful to be in any way critical of any way you process what you’ve been going through but I just kinda miss my funny, dark, normal-speaking friend who talks to me as herself.”