The adoptive parents, Brandon and Teresa Davis, welcomed Carly into their family when she was just an infant, as viewers witnessed on MTV?s 16 and Pregnant. Initially, they agreed to an open adoption, which allowed the Baltierras to maintain contact with their daughter. However, Catelynn and Tyler have reported a significant decline in visits over the years. This reduction in communication has led to feelings of abandonment and misunderstanding for the couple, intensifying their desire to stay connected with Carly as she grows up.

In the latest episode of Teen Mother, Catelynn opened up about the fallout stemming from her social media activity, where she expressed frustrations about being ignored by the Davises. She revealed that Teresa sent her a message stating, ?The way in which that you simply discuss us on-line was very hurtful, so we?re not going to be responding.? This lack of response has only exacerbated Catelynn?s feelings of isolation and concern about her daughter?s well-being.

Tyler defended their online behavior, stating that they will always communicate their feelings about the lack of visits with Carly. He emphasized, ?I?m gonna share my story and that?s all I?m doing. If you?re not gonna talk to us anymore, respect it. But I?m still going to keep my promise to Carly by sending her updates and photos. That?s what we agreed upon.? This commitment highlights their determination to remain a part of Carly?s life, despite the obstacles they face.

Catelynn further explained that she often sends thoughtful gifts to the Davis household, including flowers, cookies, and a blanket adorned with photos from their time together. However, these gestures have been met with resistance, as Catelynn claimed Teresa reached out to their adoption counselor, Dawn, expressing discomfort with the items, stating, ?We do not want them sending anything more to the house. It?s so uncontrolled and inappropriate.? This reaction has left Catelynn feeling rejected and frustrated, as she simply wants to maintain a connection with her daughter.

After sharing her ongoing updates about their lives and photos of their other children, Catelynn revealed her disappointment over the lack of responses. Tyler noted that they could tell the messages were not being delivered, which they interpreted as an indication that they had been ?blocked.? This realization has been incredibly painful for them, as they grapple with the reality of their diminishing relationship with Carly.

?You are closing the adoption. You are closing an open adoption without any reason!? exclaimed Tyler, expressing his outrage and frustration over the situation. His words reflect the emotional turmoil they are experiencing as they feel increasingly cut off from their daughter.

The couple later met with Dawn to express their frustrations regarding the Davises. Catelynn expressed that the adoption now ?feels very closed,? a sentiment that triggers her PTSD. She shared, ?Now that contact has been blocked and I?m cut off; that does feel like you are drawing a solid line in the sand of no more,? while Tyler added, ?Blocking is something kids do.? This conversation highlights their deep emotional struggle and sense of loss.

?If their opinion is different than yours and they?ve requested for space and they?ve asked for things to calm down and it hasn?t happened, then is it the only alternative they?ll see?? Dawn questioned the couple, emphasizing that they possess significant influence due to their reality star status. This conversation sheds light on the complex dynamics at play in their relationship with Carly’s adoptive parents.

?When you put it out on a public platform on social media, I read the comments, people create their own narrative. A lot of harm happens when we live our life out on social media,? she continued, highlighting the repercussions of public scrutiny in their personal lives.

Catelynn gracefully acknowledged that she would ?100% step back? if she believed it was in Carly?s best interest, as Dawn inquired whether it was ?fair? to ?put that kind of pressure on a young teenager.? This reflection shows Catelynn’s deep care for Carly and her desire to prioritize her wellbeing above all.

?If it?s coming from Brandon and Teresa?s fear or insecurity or she?s getting older and they?re not wanting contact, I can?t stop reaching out,? Catelynn insisted passionately. ?I can?t stop sending her gifts. I can?t do it, Dawn. I can?t.? Her resolve to maintain a connection with Carly is a testament to her love and commitment as a mother.

Dawn suggested that Carly is being placed ?in a very difficult position,? comparing it to a game of tug-of-war. She emphasized the need for the couple to take a step back and assess the situation. This advice highlights the emotional complexities involved in open adoptions and the importance of considering all perspectives.

?That?s not fair, Dawn,? Cate responded, breaking down in tears as she expressed, ?I chose to want to know information? regarding something I gave them, that?s overly hurtful. I don?t think they understand what it does. You never wanted to give a child to somebody and live with that for the rest of your life. It?s just not fair.? Her emotional response underscores the heavy burden of her decision to place Carly for adoption and the ongoing pain it causes.

As Tyler inquired about what ?an appropriate? timeframe would be to step back from contacting Carly, Dawn advised them to take a ?pause.? She added, ?We don?t know what tomorrow brings; we don?t know what three months from now is going to be.? This uncertainty reflects the unpredictable nature of their situation and the challenges of navigating relationships in adoption.

?I?m taking a pause until initiation happens not from me,? Tyler responded, and the group acknowledged that their journey is far from over. This statement emphasizes his commitment to Carly and the hope that future communication may still be possible.

Although this episode was filmed months ago, Catelynn shared with TooFab ahead of the season premiere that they remain blocked. This ongoing issue has left them feeling helpless in maintaining a relationship with Carly.

?There hasn?t been any improvement. We?re still blocked. I still have no way of communicating with them, even if I wanted to. So no, it?s still the same,? she conveyed to TooFab, highlighting the emotional toll this situation continues to take on her and Tyler.

?Now I?ve kind of turned it to where I?m just trying to do adoption, adoptee advocacy, so having adoptees use their voices and speak their situations and what would have helped them,? she added. ?So yeah, it has been exhausting, but we will get through it.? Catelynn?s commitment to advocacy reflects her desire to help others navigate similar challenges in the adoption process.

Catelynn and Tyler faced backlash from fans after they publicly aired their grievances against Brandon and Teresa on social media during the airing of last season. Despite this, Catelynn believes that being part of the MTV reality show has not negatively impacted the situation; instead, it has held Carly’s adoptive parents accountable for their promises.

?Honestly, part of me says that I believe that if we weren?t on the show, I think they would have cut off contact a long time ago,? she explained to TooFab. ?I believe the show has kind of maybe needed to keep them a little bit accountable for what they promised.? This perspective reveals how their reality TV involvement has shaped their experience and interactions with Carly?s adoptive family.

?I really believe that,? she continued. ?I mean, generally, when a birth parent decides on an open adoption, most open adoptions close within the first five years, and that?s not because the birth parents want it to happen; it?s because the adoptive parents just do it. So I do think, you know, it?s perhaps?I think that they would have cut it off a long time ago, honestly, and not for Carly?s sake, I think, [but] for their own. But that?s just my personal opinion.? This reflects the complexity of feelings surrounding the adoption process and the realities faced by birth parents.

Teen Mother: The Subsequent Chapter airs Thursdays on MTV.