As we transition through May, we find ourselves in a month full of vibrant activities, preparing for the warmth of summer while still embracing the remnants of spring. Our calendar is buzzing with excitement: from an alluring short getaway to Mexico, engaging dinner events, innovative creative projects, to early stages of progress on our new home. Additionally, we’re refining our daily routines by experimenting with new workouts, utilizing fresh tools, and becoming more intentional with our time management. Below, you’ll discover what we’re currently doing, the fashion we’re embracing, items we’re purchasing, and trends we’re keeping an eye on this month.

Engaging Activities We’re Undertaking This Month

• We’ve been integrating Duckbill into our daily lives—it’s an AI-powered virtual assistant that simplifies everything from travel bookings to appointment scheduling, managing returns, and organizing our to-do lists. This tool has significantly enhanced our clarity and productivity throughout the week.
• Thomas and I are excitedly planning a short trip to San Miguel de Allende, just the two of us. Our accommodation will be at Belmond Casa de Sierra Nevada, marking our first visit to this charming location. We can’t wait to experience its stunning architecture, delightful cuisine, and tranquil moments.
• I’m looking forward to a dinner event at The Dunlin, hosted by Mrs. Alice. This will be a delightful opportunity for me as it’s my inaugural visit to this esteemed property.
• Our summer travel plans are all set, and we’re eagerly anticipating adventures in Greece, Harbour Island, Idaho, California, and Hawaii. This lineup offers a perfect blend of relaxation and inspiration.
• We have officially begun the design and decorating journey for our new home alongside Summer Thornton, and it already feels like our vision is coming to life, reflecting our unique style and preferences.
• Recently, we had the pleasure of dining at Merci, one of Charleston’s latest culinary gems. The experience was nothing short of incredible, leaving lasting memories.
• The cocktails at Legami were so delightful that we decided to book a dinner before we left, showcasing the quality of their offerings.
• Lately, we’ve been capturing moments using film cameras. There’s something refreshing and nostalgic about slowing down the photography process. We are currently developing a comprehensive post for Substack that will detail our experiences and the impact it has on how we document our lives.
• Our latest Substack post (exclusively for subscribers) was particularly personal—focusing on outsourcing help, reflecting on past experiences, our current situation, and ongoing challenges. The feedback has been remarkable—filled with thoughtful insights and reflections.
• I’ve incorporated Lagree-style pilates into my weekly fitness regimen, attending classes 2 to 3 times a week. This workout has been intense in the most rewarding way, making me feel stronger, more balanced, and highly motivated.

Fashion Essentials I’m Embracing This Month

As I prepare for my trip to San Miguel, I’m meticulously packing items that blend style with comfort, ensuring I’m ready for various occasions and the warm weather.

Alongside my travel preparations, I am rotating through a selection of versatile outfits that reflect my personal style while being functional for both casual outings and formal events this month.

Exciting Purchases to Enhance My Lifestyle

Trendy Items on My Radar This Month

• A stylish shell hair clip — perfect for those humid summer days when I want to keep my hair chic yet manageable.
• This stunning dress — undoubtedly one of the most eye-catching pieces I’ve encountered recently. A mini version is available as well, catering to various preferences.
• Chanel’s Cruise 2025 collection, showcased at Villa d’Este, presents a sophisticated blend of raffia, wicker, silk scarves, and jewel-toned hues—embodying pure Lake Como glamour with a contemporary twist.
• From the NAP x Etro collaboration, I’m particularly drawn to unique pieces that embody artistic design and functionality.
• I’ve been captivated by the jewelry created by Grazia & Marica Vozza. Their collections exude an old-world elegance with unexpected proportions, resulting in pieces that are chunky yet lightweight, sculptural yet easy to wear.
• Currently browsing for outdoor furniture to complement our new home—these wicker and iron chairs have caught my attention with their aesthetic appeal.
• Our Moke is seeing more use than ever now that we’ve relocated downtown. If I were to redesign it, I would opt for this version with wicker seats—it evokes memories of vintage Fiat Jollys, adding a nostalgic touch.
• I’m saving this beautiful tablescape by Cordelia de Castellane for our next dinner party; the layered florals and thoughtfully arranged groupings are simply stunning.
• De Gournay’s new Bunny Mellon collection serves as a masterclass in garden-inspired design, featuring delicate florals, hand-painted trellises, and a color palette derived from her iconic landscapes. I’m currently saving it for *hopefully* a future room in our new home.